Conservative Girl in a Liberal World

atackierpink:

No.

You had unprotected sex with a girl when you were a child. It ended in pregnancy.

You are attacking the morality of a 14 year old girl who terminated a pregnancy that would have resulted in a child that neither you or her had the capacity to care for. A girl that preserved your and her own youth, and stopped a child being raised in circumstances that are not fit for any child.

You really should be assessing your own morality.

What kind of 14 year old boy fucks a 14 year old girl, without protection, gets her pregnant then runs an online smear campaign against her for doing what was best for her, her family and you?

What? You think you had the capacity to raise a child at age 14/15? How would you feed it or look after it? You wouldn’t. You were going to dump it on her or your own parents, live like the carefree little shit you are and occasionally play with the child when you could be bothered and think “Wow, what a good, brave young father I am.”

Man up. You made the mistake, she went through the trauma of saving your youth for you. You owe her so much better than this. You absolutely disgust me.

Less than forward-slash three, you’re real fucking remorseful. That’s poetry that is.

You’re breaking my heart kid.

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Pro-Choice.

To start off this rant, I’m completely Pro-Life.

The above rant assumes that the girl in question was also 14. Very poor assumption to make.  We have no idea how old the girl/woman he had sex with was.  So we shouldn’t even begin to accuse him of anything based off you thinking it was most likely with a girl his own age.

I don’t agree with how this boy went about saying what he did, but clearly it has affected him in some way and it’s wrong for anyone to assume his true feelings.   He looks to be about 17 or so now, so this is clearly still on his mind and it sounds like he had very little say in the matter.  I’m all for women’s rights, but too often we forget about the father in all of her ranting and ramblings.  Yes, HER body, but HIS child as well; I believe the old saying says “It takes two to tango”.  What I would love to know is what the remaining cards had to say.  What else did he say?

And why is it he’s the one accused of unprotected sex and not her?  What, are we women too above buying condoms?  Sure, I think it’s a man’s responsibility to do that, especially if I’m on birth control, but damn, it’s both of their faults, not just his.  If she didn’t want to get pregnant, maybe she should have not have sex with him.  Ever ponder that, the girl taking responsibility for her actions.

Short story: I have a cousin who was pregnant at 15, gave birth to her son at 16, and is still raising that child on her own.  Yes, she had a caring family that supported her, but she raised that child, not her parents or grandparents.  And she is by far one of the best mothers around.  She knows she lost out on some of her own childhood, but that little boy is the joy of her life.  So, again, wrong of you to assume what type of person this guy is.  Sure, he was irresponsible to get a girl pregnant at such a young age, but don’t care knock him for trying to be responsible for what happened.  If my cousin, who borrowed money that she’s still paying back, working two jobs to support her child and basically having no social life, can do it, then so could have these two kids.

And again, if he should man up, she should woman up.  THEY made a mistake, not just him.  SHE went through the physical trauma that she put herself through and HE is now going through the emotional trauma of dealing with something he had no say in.  THEY should have discussed this together.

Additionally to that, if he knows that the child was to be a boy, that means she carried the child until, at the least, her second trimester.  Even at 18 to 20 weeks, depending on the position of the baby during the ultrasound, you still may not be able to determine the sex of the child.  This wasn’t an “Oops, I made a mistake and should fix it because we just found out” but more of a “Let’s see how it works, but oh wait! I changed my mind and don’t care what you say and I’m killing this baby.”  And I say kill because that’s what this girl did.  Whatever her reasons.  How do you justify killing a baby at 20 weeks?  That’s not pro-choice, that’s pro-murder.

Oh, and in case you’re wondering what a child looks during the second trimester, here’s some pictures of an aborted human being: link. And here’s the listing of acceptable abortion options for a second trimester baby: link.  They’re either vacuuming the child out or inducing an abortion similar to childbirth.  Congratulations, welcome to murder.

Bottom line: Aborting a human is wrong and both sides of the pregnancy need to “man up” and take responsibility for their actions to formulate a solution, a solution that doesn’t require murdering an innocent human being.

(Source: ruinshoes)